1. We want to control 2. We want it fast/badly 3. We lack empathy to self 4. We lack empathy to others
I have struggled with impatience for a very long time. I realise I lose patience when I want to control. I also lose patience when I want it fast & want it badly.
But all of these are because we are not self aware & lack empathy to our own self. If we realise we are losing patience we will slow down & become patient.
Empathy towards others is the key to being patient. We lack empathy towards others because we we are unable to step into their shoes.
What about you? Where are you stuck?