I still remember after I have to be compelled to know their romance, one in all my friend told me then I cross checked that from internet it absolutely was like all the way on Social Media.
Shikhar Dhawan saw the image of Ayesha Mukherjee on Facebook and he sent the friend request to her,she accepted and that they both started chatting and find yourself with marrying with one another in 2012,at that point Ayesha was a mother of two Daughters and he or she was a divorcee,used to board Australia,
She is 11 years elder to Dhawan.
This story was something extraordinary as an Indian perspective,Dhawan could be a cricketer,a celebrity in India and he married to a lady whom he met on Facebook,usually social media love takes place among normies.
I thought could also be this is often the definition of true love and it had been but now they're divorced after 9 years of marriage and Ayesha informed it through an instagram post she written—
I THOUGHT DIVORCE WAS a unclean WORD UNTIL I BECAME A-2 TIME DIVORCEE.
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Funny how words can have such powerful meanings and associations. I experienced this first hand as a divorcee. the primary time I went through a divorce i used to be soooooooo fu@king scared. I felt like I had failed and that i was doing something so wrong at that point.
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I felt as if I had let everyone down and even felt selfish. I felt that i used to be letting my parents down, I felt that i used to be letting my children down and even to some extent I felt as if i used to be letting God down. Divorce was such a grimy word.
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So now imagine, i've gotto travel through it a second time. Woooahhhhhh. that's terrifying. Being divorced once before already, felt like I had more at stake the second time round. I had more to prove. So when my second marriage broke down it absolutely was really scary. All the emotions I felt once I went through it the primary time came flooding in. Fear, failure and disappointment x 100. What does this mean for me? How does this define me and my relationship to marriage?
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Well, once I went through the mandatory actions and emotions of what had happened i used to beready to sit with myself and see that i used to be fine, i used to be actually doing great, even noticed my fear had totally disappeared. The remarkable thing is I actually felt rather more empowered. i spotted my fear and also the meaning I gave to the word divorce was my very own doing.
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So, once i noticed this I began to redefine the word and therefore the experience of divorce in line with the way I wanted to determine it and knowledge it.
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❤️Divorce means choosing myself and not settling and sacrificing my very own life for the sake of a wedding
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❤️Divorce means al though you are doing your best and take a look at your best things sometimes don't figure out and that is OK
❤️Divorce means I've got had amazing relationships that have taught me great lessons to hold forward in new relationships
❤️Divorce means i'm stronger and more resilient than I ever thought
❤️Divorce really means whatever meaning you give to that.
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If you're combating divorce or scared to finish a relationship supported being labelled a divorcee then dm 'divorce' and book in a very Vision Call with me to figure 1:1
Wishing all the most effective for his or her life ahead and hope Zoravar (7yo son of Ayesha and Shikhar) doesn't undergo any parenting issues.
Cheers.!